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Thoughts to help you stay on your path by clearing negativity from your energy and focusing on the Positive!

AUGUST 2010
Red Rose, Growing
Kindness is Always Rewarded
 
On two different occasions recently, I was presented
with interesting opportunities to either put my own
agenda, motives and plan first...Or...Allow someone
else to step into the spotlight who obviously wanted/
needed some Attention and Recognition.
 
I've been attempting to "Allow" and "Not Resist", so I
chose the "High Road" and stepped aside to ensure
1) the other person received the Recognition she needed
and 2) Went with another's direction on a part of my
own project  to give him needed validation at a
vulnerable time in his life.
 
On both occasions, others said:
"You should get the Recognition" and
"It's your project. Don't let him change it."
 
I didn't listen to them.
I listened to my Heart, which said,
                "They need this.  You don't."
I Trusted in the Universe to make it all go okay.
I stepped aside and let them shine.
 
The Result was Verification that when we work
unselfishly and consider and validate other's needs
and input, that we will be Rewarded.
 
In the first situation, I was rewarded with more
recognition than the person I stepped aside for.
In the second, the project was enhanced a great
deal by the other person's changes.
 
I wasn't looking for recognition and I didn't realize
the project could be improved in such a way.
I was just trying to make two people feel better.
To help them through an emotional time.
I was simply being Kind.
 
I Learned a Valuable Lesson.
Kindness is Always Rewarded.
The Universe Sees To It.
 
The Most Important Thing is:
              How We Treat Other People.
 
Be Kind.
You Will Be Rewarded.
 
With Much Love, 
Vicki
 
 
 
 
 
 

JULY 2010
Running, Colorado
Timing is Relative to Your Readiness
 
Ever Wonder Why Some People Spend Years
Trying to Be Successful and Others Achieve
their Goals Easily and Much Faster?
 
Like Danny Devito being rejected at over 120
auditions before landing a role and Michelle
Pfeiffer being "discovered" while she was
working her job as a grocery check out girl.
 
Ok...I'll admit there is a difference in
physical attributes there.
 
But, there is also another factor:
            Inner Attributes.
Our Mental and Emotional
         Readiness for Success.
I doubt that producer would have given her a
second thought if she hadn't exuded an air of
      "I'm Ready to be a Star!"
as she handed him his change.
 
People FEEL Our Inner Confidence and
Readiness Level much more than we
realize...and they Respond Accordingly to it
...and so does the Universe.
 
An Inner Belief of Unworthiness can stop you
faster than anything.  If a person who believes
she is unworthy Does get a chance at stardom,
she'll unconsciously Sabotage herself...and not
even know she's doing it.
 
Wow. 
It's Amazing how the human mind works.
 
Timing is not an Outside Factor that we are
At Its Mercy.  It's an Inside Factor and it
depends on our inner beliefs about ourselves
formed throughout childhood.
 
Having an "I'm Not Worthy" Complex is
Something to Consider if you've been
Struggling for years and not
achieving your dreams.
Decide to work on your Inner Timing.
 
Repeat this Mantra:    "I Am Worthy!"
Several Times a day. 
 
Make Changes in your Life that
            Reflect Your Worthiness.
Accept Compliments Graciously
           Believing Your Deserve them.
Stop Giving your Time & Money Away to
People Who Do Not Appreciate or Deserve it.
Choose to Spend Your Time with
          Individuals  Who Show You They
                Love & Care for You
 
     Allow Doors to Be Opened for You and
          Chairs pulled out for you.
 
You Deserve it. 
You Deserve the Royal Treatment. 
     Accept it with Grace and Gratitude. 
 
Declare to Yourself:  "I'm Ready to Be a Star!"
 
Because YOU ARE WORTHY!!!!!!!!
 
The World Will Respond to YOUR Timing.
 
With Much Love,
Vicki
 
 

JUNE 2010
Businesswoman sitting in chair w/feet on table
SUCCESS REQUIRES COMPASSIONATE DETACHMENT
 
I''ve written about
        Compassionate Detachment
before in the YIN Cleansing Beliefs. 
I give a thorough description in my books. 
 
Basically, Compassionate Detachment is
Caring for a person while not allowing their
disrespectful behavior to affect you
emotionally, mentally (focus) and
physically (performance).
 
This can be tough to do when the person
disrespecting you is a family member or
someone who you thought was a friend.    
 
Often,  when we become more successful in
our lives, the very people we expected to
Cheer us on are the ones who fail to
acknowledge our accomplishments. 
 
When this happens, a flurry of emotions can
rise in us: 
Anger that our success is being ignored. 
Sadness that the person we love does not
want to share in our celebration and joy. 
Fear that our continued success will cause an
irrevocable distance in our relationship.
 
 It can also cause us to start
           Doubting Ourselves,
wondering if we're really worthy of what we've
achieved.  I believe this is the
           Underlying Motive
of the person who refuses to give another her
just accolades.  A desire to create self-doubt
in the envied person. 
          This motive may Not Be Conscious.
 
So, how do we keep ourselves on track and
moving happily toward more success in the
midst of jealous people?
 
By remembering it is Not About You.
This is where the Detachment comes in. 
The person refusing to give you credit
probably doesn't give others credit either. 
This is not about You and Your Success, it is
about Them and Their Feelings of their own
Lack of Success.
 
To them, Your Success is like a
Blinding Neon Sign Blinking:
                "You're Not good Enough!"
to them.  They are Comparing. 
Comparison can be used in a healthy way to
help improve or it can be used in unhealthy,
unnecessary competition.
 
I use Three Wisdom Principles when I experience this
Lack of Acknowledgement:
  1.  Jealous People Don't Want to Give You Anything - even a Compliment.
  2. People can only Perform at their Current Level of Self-Awareness.
  3. Help them Rise Higher by Giving Them a Compliment!  Teach by Example.
This allows me to Detach from their behavior
while remaining Compassionate toward them
as I feel empathy for them that they are still at
this jealous, comparing level of awareness. 
When you really SEE them where they are
emotionally and spiritually,  it moves you to
wish more for them.
 
People change. 
This same person may be different in five
years. Don't give up on loved ones b/c they
currently are at a different awareness level.  
 
You may need to take some physical distance
from them for your own emotional and focus
needs. But keep them close in your heart.
Send them Love.
 
Thank them for teaching you
Compassionate Detachment.
 
The more Successful You Become...
the More You'll Need It.
 
With Much Love,
Vicki
 
 
 

MAY 2010
Pipes and Faucet
Keep the FLOW Open!
 
We live in a Magnetic Universe.
We Magnetically PULL Things, People and
Opportunities to Us.
 
There is a Constant Positive Flow of
What We Want Flowing to Us
Like water flowing thru a Spigot.
 
When we're Positive, Happy and Optimistic,
the Spigot is turned On.
It is Open and the Water (Good Things) Flows.
 
If we get Upset by Something Someone Else
does, the spigot is turned Off.
If we Choose to Be Irritated by their Behavior,
Our Spigot is turned Off.
If we do anything but Allow Others to Be Who
They Are, Our Spigot is Turned Off.
 
Wow.
Whenever we Judge Another,
          We Stop Our Own Positive Flow.
Whenever we Harbor any Type of Negativity
toward Another,
           We Stop Our Own Flow of Good Things
                         Coming to Us.
We Turn Off Our Own Spigot!
 
How Do We Keep Our Mind Positive and
Only thinking Good Thoughts?
I've Been Using the Mantra:
                                 "Keep the FLOW Open!"
 
whenever I catch myself going Negative about
Anything or Anybody.
When I get that first Negative Thought, I think,
         "This will Shut Off my Flow and Keep me from
                        Getting What I Want."
                      "Keep the FLOW Open!"
and I turn my Focus toward Something
Positive...like my son:)
Sometimes I mimic a "turning" motion with my
right hand to symbolize turning my faucet back on.
 
Sometimes it is difficult to find good-feeling
thoughts about a situation.
So, Change you Focus. 
Don't Think about That thing or Person.
If you do, you'll shut off YOUR Flow, Not Theirs!
 
That is So Important to Remember.
Petty Envy or Irritation or Insults Don't Shut Off
the Other Person's FLOW.
They Shut Off YOURS!!!
 
Be Nice to Other People For You OWN Sake.
And if you can't be nice, Change Your Focus.
That way, your Flow Will Stay Open.
 
Have an Image of Something or Someone
Ready in your Mind as your
     "Spigot Turning Positive Image "
that you can always think about to get your
Flow going Again when you catch yourself
turning it off.
 
I Want Good Things to Flow to YOU.
You Deserve It.
 
Love You,
Vicki
 
 

 
 

MARCH 2010
Surfer in rip curl
Go With the Current
 
My quote on the homepage says it all:
 
"When You Resist Anything, You Resist
Everything... Because It Is ALL ONE!"
 
God is Everything.
Everyone is a Piece of God.
Everything is a Piece of God.
 
If you Resist Anything, You are Resisting a
Piece of God.
Which is Everything b/c It Is ALL GOD.
 
Take a spoonful of the ocean and you have a
piece of the ocean.  Just b/c you separated it
by placing it in a spoon doesn't mean it is not
still the ocean.
 
It retains its natural essence. 
You can't change that.
Same thing when you take an experience or
person (spoonful of ocean).
It is still God.  It's just in another vessel.
 
Since it all the Ocean (God), when you Resist
the spoonful, you say "no" to the whole ocean
b/c its essence is still connected.
 
If there is something you want to achieve or
attain and you are having trouble being
successful, you are resisting at some level.
 
"But, I do want that thing" you say.
Yes, but you are resisting something else that
you do not realize is connected to what you want
and THAT Resistance is hindering you.
 
It may be the Consequences of Getting What
You Want.  The Repercussions.
More Responsibility and Stress.
Family Reaction.
Friend Jealousy.
Fear of Success.
 
The list goes on and on.
I have a Technique that helps you Determine
EXACTLY What Your Resistance is and I'll be
doing a Video on it.
For now, Ask yourself Questions about the
Consequences of getting what you want.
You may uncover your Resistance.
 
Good Luck!
Love you,
Vicki
 

FEBRUARY 2010
Illustration: Be my valentine
FREEDOM = Fearlessy Speaking Your Truth
 
Resenting Your Valentine?
 
It happens.
It seems to be happening a lot lately for a lot of
people. We are being prompted as a collective to
Voice Our Personal Truths.
 
This is so we can become clear on
        Who We Are & What We Want.
The spoken word adds Volume, Depth &
Meaning to our Thoughts.
 
Suppressed Truth breeds Resentment.
Compromising our Principles to Keep the
Peace in our Relationship breeds Resentment.
Allowing our Partner to overstep our
Boundaries breeds Resentment.
 
If you feel yourself Resenting your partner, Ask:
          "What am I agreeing to do that
               I no longer want to do?"
 
                "What am I tolerating that I
                  no longer wish to tolerate?"
 
           "What is it in this relationship that I
               no longer wish to experience?"
 
Whatever your Answer...THAT is your TRUTH.
Expressing your Truth brings Freedom.
Freedom from Resentment.
Freedom from a Reduced Sense of Self.
Freedom to Have Your Life as You Choose.
 
Happy Valentine's Day!
 
Love you,
Vicki
 
 
 

JANUARY 2010
Piggy bank
My Bank Account is a Reflection 
of What I Think I Am Worth
 
Our Financial Status Mirrors Our Emotional Status.
If we harbor an "I'm Not Worthy" Self-belief, this
belief will be reflected in our bank balance.
 
There are no financial problems, only emotional problems.
 
If we have bad debt (debt for non-appreciating
assets, credit cards, car loans, etc.),
we may harbor the belief that we owe for
being here.
 
This feeling of indebtedness may have
developed from a childhood of having to
"earn your keep", creating an unconscious
feeling of owing or needing to pay to exist.
 
If you are entering 2010 with a less than
satisfactory financial status, decide to recognize
that the situation stems from unresolved emotional
issues of Worthiness.
 
Vow to Yourself to Begin Working on
Knowing and Valuing Your Own True Worth.
 
Try this Mantra:
     "I Am Worthy.
      I Am A Piece of God.
      I Am Worth Infinite Wealth.
      I Want My Bank Account to Relect
                 My True Worth.
 
      I Vow to Grow my Bank Account to
       Show How Wonderful I Know I Am.
 
      I Want the World to Know that I Love
                 and Care for Myself."
 
Recall this Mantra when you are tempted to
trade your wealth for trinkets and
unnecessary items.
 
You want to keep that cash so you can build
your bank balance to
            Reflect What You Know You Are Worth.
 
Make a Plan to Pay Off Your Debt.
You Do Not Owe Anyone Anything.
You Deserve to Be Here.
You Are a Child of God.
And You Deserve.
You Deserve to Be Here.
Without Owing Anyone.
 
Own Your True Self with Your True Worth.
Infinite Abundance and Wealth.
 
Love you,
Vicki
 
 
 
 


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